Over the course of several years, I have identified the key issues that plague most Nice Guys and keep them stuck in mediocrity. Two of the key issues are a lack of clear purpose and a lack of a distinct clear identity. This lack of clarity is often the reason Nice Guys end up in […]
As we move into the second half of the year, it is important to revisit the topic of Purpose and Passion. A lot of people who rely on New Year's resolutions for motivation give up by this time of the year. This is a call to people who realize that they have a unique purpose […]
Fear tends to permeate many areas of our lives. For example, if you fear making new friends, it then stands to reason that you also may fear going to parties, having intimate relationships, applying for jobs, and so on. Some fear is instinctual, healthy, and keeps us alert to trouble. The rest - the part […]
Social anxiety is typically the first obstacle that prevents us from expressing ourselves effectively and connecting with others. It stems from an internal belief or perception of being insufficient or unworthy. These feelings often originate from past experiences or negative conditioning. To overcome social anxiety, it's essential to build newer, positive conditioning to replace the […]
It's a common dynamic amongst nice guys to have at least some negativity and resentment towards women. This can be especially true for single guys who have either not had much success in dating and for guys who have a tendency to pick and stay with wounded women. Nice guys often allow women who don't […]
Whatever we believe is true; our mind will find it to be true and find evidence to support it. What we believe to be true is what we will manifest in the world, and that is what we will attract to ourselves. It's a common dynamic amongst nice guys to have at least some negativity […]
Nice guys have a hard time setting boundaries, and that is partly because they lack clarity about their values. The values they do have have been imparted to them by family, friends, religion, and external sources. Most of the time, they know deep down that they don't resonate with these values. Therefore, there is an internal […]
Since Nice Guys tend to be passive, especially around women, and especially around women they're attracted to, they often attract strong or controlling women. Because Nice Guys often won't take the lead when it comes to the relationship with women, it forces the woman to take that lead, so it makes her appear fairly strong […]
It often seems like women want us to prioritize them above anything else, but in all reality, women want us to be dedicated to our own fulfillment. When we aren't, women feel smothered by our neediness and clinging. Often, Nice Guys take responsibility for their woman's happiness because it gives them a sense of purpose. […]
Most nice guys are not good at making their needs a priority. They tend to have little if any passion in life and are often isolated and engaged in solitary behaviors. Nice guys tend to be creatures of habit and are often not connected to other men. They often have hidden compulsive behaviors and are […]
When we talk about personal power, resilience is what helps us roll with the punches, bounce back from those hard knocks, and keep going when things get tough. But there's a secret ingredient to resilience that often gets overlooked, and that's vulnerability. I know it sounds counterintuitive. Vulnerability - isn't that a sign of weakness? […]
Success September Series: Part One Breaking Free from Self-Limiting Beliefs This is the first meeting of our Success September series! We're going to dive into the self-limiting beliefs that hold men back from reaching their full potential in life, whether it's in relationships, careers, or personal growth. Many guys, especially those who consider themselves "nice […]
